I don't like to keep using this forum for this purpose but it bugs me not to answer when you challenge my point of view. You have your opinions, I have mine and since you asked, here's mine- nature follows laws. Rivers flow to the sea, not visa versa, the sun rises in the east, sets in the west, the seasons change etc- but humans have free will. Most gay people probably believe they were born that way, maybe not realizing it was a choice. Others try to use it as a justification, especially if they're not comfortable with it within themselves. There are exceptions. For example, siamese twins. If that can happen, I would imagine that somewhere along in fetal development, things could happen to cause sexual confusion- MEDICALLY. But probably extremely rare. Bruce Jenner, choice or more female traits from birth? I don't know but transgender is a little different. If being gay is something present at birth, what about bi sexuals? People in the entertainment industry change their sexual preferences faster than you can change the channel. It helps their image, makes them appear "edgy". Gay is the fasionable way to push the limits. Anyhow, that's the way I see it. Take it or leave it.